Unexplained Infertility
Natalia contacted me after fertility tests had failed to find anything wrong in either her or her partner. Understandably, her frustration was “if everything is ok, then why am I unable to conceive?” Natalia and her partner had been trying for a couple of years and now she wanted to explore any other options available that might help before they resorted to IVF treatment.
Natalia’s questionnaire didn’t highlight any known links that might be attributing to past experiences of concern, so I suggested we use hypnosis to explore matters at a different level. I asked Natalia to visualise her womb and describe the environment. Strange as this exercise may seem, the feedback is always valuable.
Natalia’s facial expression when she started this exercise was very telling. She described a very dark, damp environment with poor lighting. She said it felt very gloomy and a very depressing place. The further we explored, the more detail emerged until emotions started to surface. As we cleared one emotion, another one surfaced. We cleared emotions of despair, sorrow and loss. There were feelings of jealousy, anger and a strong sense of having no control over the situation, again very common emotions when women are having difficulty conceiving.
During this three hour session Natalia cleared layer upon layer of emotion until gradually, when she visualised her womb, the environment started to gain warmth, colour and feel fresh and welcoming. Clearing the backlog of suppressed emotion, it was clear by the end that Natalia was feeling emotionally calm, refreshed and optimistic.
In today’s hectic way we live, we rarely find time to just sit and tune in to our bodies, to just listen and be guided by those subtle nudges from our subconscious. Sometimes, just taking time out to stop and pay attention to what we are avoiding or overlooking can give us the road map to clearing trapped emotions and freeing up physical energy as those suppressed emotions dissipate.
Natalia is now relaxed and happy to let nature take its path. She is also much more aware and takes the time to clear negative emotions before they start to accumulate.
If you would like to find out how I can help you clear any unsettling emotions, visit my Pure Therapy Programme page. Alternatively, use the form below to drop me a line or call and speak with me directly on 01276 21386.
Conception & Birth Services
Pure Therapy Programme Brief therapy to dissolve your fears, phobias, anxieties and any emotional trauma. This programme focuses on calming your mind, restoring your confidence and self-esteem, giving you back a sense of control in your life as well as the clarity to make important decisions.
Essential Support Programme Regular, short check-in sessions by phone to keep you calm, relaxed, optimistic and positively focused between significant milestones from conception to birth. The therapeutic toolkit enables sabotaging emotional wobbles to be dissolved in an instant.
HypnoBirthing® Classes The ultimate in birth preparation classes to teach both you and your partner how to use hypnotic relaxation skills, special breathing techniques and endorphin releasing massage to manage the physical demands of labour and feel calm, relaxed and confident during the birth.
Parent Coaching Programme No baby arrives with a manual and few parents have endless hours to devour a ‘how to’ book. Parent coaching is a supportive route to helping you create your own practical solutions to whatever parenting challenges you are facing, in time sensitive short sessions.